
here's the "Optimist Creed" which my form tcher mentioned about today when she was giving one of her heart-to-heart talks... think it's really wise...the talk was on how EQ makes the world go round, and thus, i feel that i should self-reflect and improve my intrapersonal skills...
i know that i m often mean and sarcastic and thus can be quite hurtful...i'm sorry... i will try hard to be nicer.
i also know that i have a bad temper, so i'm working on reining it in... just sometimes though, when i feel that people are being internationally hurtful or extremely and unjustly mean, i will still get pissed off... i'm sorry for losing my temper...
though i confess that i'm still working hard to obtain those standards set in the optimist creed...like today, i felt quite sad that my sec 4 class forgot my bday yet rmbered another girl's bday which is on the same day as mine...though, after thinking abt it, i feel that it doesnt really matter if someone who is not close to u doesnt rmb...as long as those ppl who really matter show their care and concern in small actions everyday, i should be thankful and appreciate that i have ppl around me who care for me... oh dont get me wrong, i'm not sad cos i wont get presents, but i truely believe in "
it's the thoughts that count", so even if u dont get me a present, just give me a hug will do ;D
so yep, i should not be sad...
besides,
one minute of unhappiness or anger will deprive u of 60 seconds of happiness...it's not worth it!
ok ppl...that's the end to today's QY's reflective moment ;D
LIVE EACH DAY TO THE HAPPIEST! ;D
i'll leave u with one last phrase from a drama which, however, is extremely meangingful:笑一笑,没什么事情过不了!;D
cheers!